Its About Time WE as a country begin to recognise the ugly truth

Yes it is about time we as a country begin to recogised the ugly truth. Evry 1 in 3 women in Maldives is domestically abused: verball; physically; psycologically and sexually.
Now the thing that really disturbs me is that untill the sexual assult case in CHSE, recently no adult female or male has ever in the history of this country ever formally reported a sexual assult incident.We only hear of children who are sexually violated.

Now i feel ashamed firstly because i was not aware of this and secondly because i had no idea that our citizens do not recognise theses ugly truths. We all know that each and every night countless number of girls and women get sexually assulted and raped, which is why im so appalled that theses victims for whatever reasons do not report such crimes.

The main reason for not reporting might be that they are afraid that the authorities may not infact believe that such incidents happened without their consent afterall this is the outcome of the CHSE assult case aswell, where the authorities stood idle of the matter.
Now I cud go on and on about this very disturbing issue but I do know that readers will get bored of reading an extremely long article therefore im going to conclude it however, before i do I would like to say that Im planning to have a campaign about this issue and the fact that CHSE and the government allowed a rapist to leave the country without so far as convicting or even charging him for his immoral wrong doings so for all of you who are interested in helping victims of such immoral acts and to hear out their pain and fear pls let me know.

Power to seduce:High Heels

bandey..wat do u reckon i shud post bout? he replies..shoe seduction so yea here it is..

Now why do me and otha girls alike hav such an obessive shoe fetish these days? Ofcourse its not only that shoes in all there forms and colors are absolutely gorgeous and they make our legs look amazing giving us length and improving the overall visual austheticness(can his be said like that?hehe) of the female legs but also coz of there power to seduce.
Ah yes...especially high heels which accentuate a womens curves and giving ladded leg length and added sexieness. Even in the advertisement industry today, sexy cud be defined as a women wearing nothing but a pair of high heels or say ugg boots. Therefore us girls just love prancing around in our high heels and also which is one of the reasons why i bought many sexy heels from my latest trip to bangkok:) hehe. So for all girls who own lots and lots of heels i say sister ur on the rite track:) and those who dont pls do so ull fall completely in lov:). Ta

Scarface`s Inspiration

So here we have an awesum pic i reckon! This i reckon wud be a wonderful inspiration to my lil scarface ofcourse pls note that i was against pimping him out but after me watched scarface the movie im like go kitty u gotta be like him to!! (Thanks baby..hehe) For those of u who wud like to see Scarface and Scarlett dont worry we`ll be gettin sum pro pics of them soon:) Oh and if nyone happens to come across a collar with a wee lil gun dangling 4m it giv me a holla :)

How Girls and Guys Deal With Pain

Now its clear to us that girls and boys deal with fusrtation and pain very differently.However, the sad part is that when in situations where this knowledge is applicable we dont ever seem to recognise it.

GIRLS NEED TO TALK

Now when a girl is upset or fustrated usually she will need to let her fustration out by talking. and talking and talking..I know!! hehe .Now this is fine coz usually the guy thinks..yay i feel so needed im gonna be able to help her out!! but heres the thing, all she wants is for u to listen.Thats right when a girl usually approaches a guy with pain he always offers her solutions and advice this is wher mrFix it cums out, where as the girl is not going to take in the advice as she is not ready for this wen she is emotional.As all she needs is to be listened to.Now at this point the guy feels unworthy and useless as she rejects his advice therefore slowly disconnects and begins to withdraw from her.Now another thing is that when us girls begin with the main cause of our pain we also let loose everything else wrong with our lives aswell.At this point the guys thinks oh no! she blames me for all her misery.No thats not it.Its just that girls like to sort everything out aloud and plu tits tension release
and plus its a natural habit aswell.

GUYS NEED THEIR SOLITUDE

Now in contrast when a guy when is upset or fustrated he prefers to go into his cave and just wants to be left alone.No girls get only one vibe from this..Oh no hes started to underappreciate me! Hes so sick of me he thats why hes starting to ignore me!! So she tries to talk to him or does unnecessary things to get his
attention inorder to try and determine whether her lil conclusion is true or not.Ofcourse this does not come out pretty.Coz he will just get annoyed.What girls need to do at a time like this say is encourage and engage him in his favourite activities because he wants to but he hesitates to he as feels he needs to find a solution for his pain all alone in his cave of solitude and will not cum out till he does.If that does not seem to do the trick,then be patient and let him deal with it on his own.

NB: This is just a typical overview.So pls dont think that all girls and guys will react this way.But it always helps being aware right:)